I am a firstborn daughter, and from an early age, I found myself naturally stepping into the roles of protector, perfectionist, and peacemaker. I’ve always been the responsible one—the one who made sure things got done, who looked out for others, and who felt the...
Counseling
Adlerian Therapy
Adlerian Therapy: A Holistic and Positive Approach to Mental Health Many years ago, in an undergraduate theories of counseling class, I encountered the work of Alfred Adler. I’m not sure if that was my first introduction to Adler or if I had heard of him before, but...
Facing Fear and Uncertainty in the Wake of the Election: How to Cope and Find Hope
Elections can evoke a range of emotions, from hope and excitement to fear and uncertainty. These emotions are valid and often shaped by personal experiences, beliefs, and perspectives. No matter where you stand politically, navigating the aftermath of an election can...
Understanding Executive Functioning: A Guide to Building Essential Life Skills
Executive functioning refers to the set of mental skills that help individuals manage time, focus attention, plan and organize, and regulate behavior. These cognitive processes are essential for navigating daily life, academic success, and personal relationships....
Managing Child Custody with Autism and PDA: Navigating Challenges
Child custody for an autistic child with a Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) profile can present unique challenges, especially around routines, masking, and emotional regulation. The Impact of PDA on Routines and Transitions Children with PDA can appear to thrive on...
Navigating Life Transitions: Finding Joy and Balance in Midlife
As middle-aged women, many of us find ourselves at a crossroads—children growing into their own lives, while we are left to rediscover ours. As a mother with my youngest now in their second year of university overseas, I can relate to the mix of emotions this phase...
Understanding Executive Functioning: A Key to Success for Neurodivergent Individuals
Executive functioning (EF) is the mental skill set that helps us plan, organize, manage time, and achieve goals. It’s essential for success in everyday life, impacting everything from getting ready for the day to completing complex projects at work. When these skills...
Comparing and Contrasting Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) and Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD)
Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) and Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD) are often confused due to the overlap in behaviors such as refusal, defiance, and avoidance of demands. However, these two profiles stem from different underlying causes and present in unique...
Understanding Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) Through a Neuroaffirming Lens: Navigating Challenges in Children and Adults
Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) is increasingly recognized as a distinct profile within the autism spectrum, though it remains a topic of debate and misunderstanding. It refers to a pattern of behavior where individuals exhibit extreme avoidance of everyday...
Understanding Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD): With and Without Autism
Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD) is a behavioral condition characterized by a consistent pattern of defiance, disobedience, and hostility towards authority figures. Children and adolescents with ODD may frequently lose their temper, argue with adults, refuse to...